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Why I Have Taken Up The Challenge

All of the situations discussed in this series are reasons for why I have taken it upon myself to write about the challenges Parents and Children face today, especially teens and tweens.

Parents:
I want to help parents and teens see that there are alternatives to doing what they know in their souls are wrong but society is telling them are right. Many of them have already lost their ability to fight against the onslaught being waged against them. That’s why I want them know that they. although they may have lost one of the battles, the war is not over. They can still win and find the happiness in their lives that they deserve from here on out.

Teens and Tweens:
If you have already become a victim of society, I want you to know that you can still free yourself from this situation if you are willing to make changes in your life. Allow me to help you; actually, I am pretty good at it. I don’t judge and love you for who you are. However, I am very clear about telling you what is good for you and what is not. You will always know where I stand on things, but feel completely loved and accepted.

Know that anything you say is between you and me, unless you want me to share your story with others. For private communications, send an email to JudithLSherman@yahoo.com and give me an address where you can receive private communications.

Parents:
I ask you parents to please allow your teens and tweens to go to my sites, which is always G-rated. They can see for themselves that it is cool to be informed and to not participate in activities their peers are doing. Let me tell them why it is important to be modest and wait for sex until marriage. My husband and I waited and now we have been married for almost 44 years. Because we waited, we have a trust between us that would not be there is either of us had not waited.

You can do your best to educate your children, but it’s likely that they will listen to me and others before they listen to you. It is just part of their internal makeup in order for them to grow up and become their own identity.

It’s true that your relationship with them is vital and that they know they can trust you for advice, I know the reason I made some of the right choices as a teen is because I didn’t want to disappoint my parents, but some kids just won’t listen to their parents. That is where I can help.

I have been a Sunday School teacher of children for over forty years, and of teens and adults for about half of that time. Teens seem to relate well to me because they know I love them unconditionally. I want you to know that you can trust me with them, so please allow me to help you.

I Encourage You to Leave a Comment

Promiscuity is rampant today because society has lost its values and have no strong reasons against participating in sex in order to satisfy lust and animal urges that come naturally. My desire is to influence these values through my blogs and give you a reason to control urges and put them in their place. Any comments you have to offer will certainly add value to this quest of mine.

If you are a teen, a tween, a parent or a grandparent, please offer us your comments. Tell us how you see this situation and what you have done to arm those you love with tools to fight in this battle.

See More Than Frosting, and my book ”SexWhatAboutIt” at Amazon.com as well.

Thanks, Judith Sherman