Sex:WhatAboutIt.com

HEALTHY ATTITUDES ABOUT SEX

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Judith L. Sherman

Age 63 Married for 45 years 4 Adult Children and 15 Grandchildren Achivements: Published Author, Sunday School Teacher, Consultant, Entrepreneur

Hello, my name is  Judy.

I am the published author of  Sex, What About it? And yes, this site is inspired by that book.

After being told that some sections from my other book (The Treasure Box Series, Volume I: Peace, Joy, and Happiness), was helpful with relationships, I decided to take those sections and make a small booklet. I handed out the booklet to fifteen people. Twelve people said I should turn it into a book, SO I DID.

Sex, What About It? is NOT a “How To” book on sex. However, it does have some “old fashioned” suggestions you might consider adopting for a healthier attitude about sex. Having Healthy Attitudes About Sex make better and longer-lasting relationships.

This site and the book are Always Wholesome and contain nothing inappropriate for teens to read. Also, I am working on another book titled More Than Frosting. It’s about looking past sex appeal and finding something deeper than the outside appearance to build on and make a relationship that lasts.

If we choose a relationship on the same basis as we choose a cake, where we don’t care about what the cake tastes like as long as it’s beautiful on the outside and has all the trimmings, then we will be disappointed when see that the inside is tasteless.

Although a beautiful cake is inviting to our taste buds, we really want more than frosting in our relationships–too much frosting will make us sick.  Do we want our relationships to be sickening to us? Of course not, but that is what happens when there is nothing on the inside on which to build a relationship! We expected the cake to have texture, flavor, and body but instead, it was sweet fluff on the outside and bland on the inside.

With all the beautiful people around us, we need to be careful with whom we choose.  If we want a person with character, we need to choose someone with the right amount of texture, body, and flavor to satisfy a us in the relationship. We need  just enough sweet frosting to satisfy our sweet tooth as well, which means the person has to be satisfying to our eyes. In other words, most men and women agree that the content of  a person is what actually makes a relationship work and last a lifetime.

Sex, What About It deals with the facets that make a relationship work. It is a great book to use when talking to your teens about sex and how to have healthy relationships. Also, the book is good to use when discussing why waiting for sex until marriage is a good idea.

The books discusses the following points:

  • Teen dating
  • Why Safe Sex is NOT REALLY safe sex
  • What if a teen gets pregnant outside of marriage
  • How to help an unmarried teen
  • Married couples have some things wrong about sex within marriage
  • How to build trust in a relationship
  • “Old Fashioned Values” make a healthy society for a reason

If you want a signed copy of  Sex, What About It, you will have to order the book from me so I can sign it. Otherwise, you will have to order it through amazon.com.

I appreciate any comments you choose leave me, rather it is positive or to say that I’m full of it.  Your response can be about anything you read here or about a thought you would like to share with us.

Thank you,

Judy

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