<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
	>

<channel>
	<title>Sex:WhatAboutIt.com &#187; Fidelity</title>
	<atom:link href="http://sexwhataboutit.com/category/fidelity/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://sexwhataboutit.com</link>
	<description>HEALTHY ATTITUDES ABOUT SEX</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2011 11:19:38 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<language>en</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3</generator>
		<item>
		<title>MARRIAGE</title>
		<link>http://sexwhataboutit.com/2010/07/23/marriage/</link>
		<comments>http://sexwhataboutit.com/2010/07/23/marriage/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 02:24:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judith Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Fidelity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[divorce conditions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[happy marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hurt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[husband]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lacked intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[not young any more]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tears]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wedding day]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wife]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wrinkles on her face]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sexwhataboutit.com/?p=235</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://sexwhataboutit.com/2010/07/23/marriage/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Sex Inside or Outside of Marriage</title>
		<link>http://sexwhataboutit.com/2010/05/29/sex-inside-or-outside-of-marriage/</link>
		<comments>http://sexwhataboutit.com/2010/05/29/sex-inside-or-outside-of-marriage/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 May 2010 05:23:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judith Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Celibacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fidelity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bond and a blessing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[counterfeit expressions of love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mistrust and insecurity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[respected]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex is to be enjoyed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[true love and happiness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[within specific boundaries]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sexwhataboutit.com/?p=226</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You don't have to take my advice, do as you see fit, but at least consider the message and apply what you feel applies to you. I want you to be happy and to grow old without too many regrets. There is a reason for Christian values espousing sex within the bounds of marriage. You may not see it as a sin when you engage in premarital sex, but perhaps I have put a different spin on this concept in a way that you can accept without the sting of sin.]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://sexwhataboutit.com/2010/05/29/sex-inside-or-outside-of-marriage/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Smudging The Lines</title>
		<link>http://sexwhataboutit.com/2010/03/18/smudging-the-lines/</link>
		<comments>http://sexwhataboutit.com/2010/03/18/smudging-the-lines/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 12:36:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judith Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Fidelity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[as a cheap toy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[build a life together]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[commitment to each other]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[higher purpose of sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[interfere with true intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[legacy-building relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marriage covenant]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[outside the marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[respect for its powers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[valuing the boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wondering spouses]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sexwhataboutit.com/?p=75</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Some people abuse sex, and they do things their creator never intended for them to do. They play with it as if it's a cheap toy, showing little or no respect for its powers or valuing the boundaries that God has placed on its use. Sometimes a spouse smudges the lines that keep sex within the bounds of their commitment to each other. They do not respect the blessing that sex should be in their relationship and so they look outside the marriage for satisfaction.]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://sexwhataboutit.com/2010/03/18/smudging-the-lines/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Fidelity</title>
		<link>http://sexwhataboutit.com/2010/03/13/fidelity/</link>
		<comments>http://sexwhataboutit.com/2010/03/13/fidelity/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 07:22:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Judith Sherman</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Fidelity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[celibate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consummated]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exploring their sexuality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fantasies]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fidelity in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gay]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lesbian]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marriage covenant]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reason men become dissatisfied]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex appeal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex part of dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexperts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual purity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trophy girlfriend]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trusted]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trustworthy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[women cheat]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sexwhataboutit.com/?p=10</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Let me tell you what I know about fidelity in a relationship and then you decide what is best for you and your relationships.

In the times we live now, sex is considered part of the dating process. Yet, in times past, people tried to reserve sex for marriage. For whatever reason today, some people still believe that sex should be saved until consummated under the marriage covenant.]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://sexwhataboutit.com/2010/03/13/fidelity/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
	</channel>
</rss>

